Chuck Frank wrote:
Life is WAY too short to be doing something you hate 40 hrs a week, and it's never too late to change. If it's something you REALLY want to do, you'll find a way to do it and you'll be sucessful at it, it's that first big step that's the hardest.
Very well said. I could not agree more with this idea.
Just to throw my $.02 in, I seem to be one of those lucky few in life. I knew what my career was going to be by the time I was 2 years old (and so did my parents

). I was an expert at building electronic things when I was small, and I built my first (functional) computer by the age of 9. Today, I work for IBM verifying their high-end and embedded microprocessors. According to the acedmic world, it's one of the most challenging problems in the entire field of computer engineering. I like it because I have a direct influence on whether defects show up in our products (anyone remember the Pentium FDIV bug?), and it requires expertise in many programming languages, CAD tools, and research theory to do correctly.
My other word of advice to people: don't ignore your other passions in life. Chances are you are passionate about cars (duh), art, music, the environment, other people, or making a difference in the world. Don't sacrifice these passions in the name of making a buck. You might be surprised at what it is that really matters most to you.
If I could sum it up, I would ask myself this question: What is a life of no regrets? That is a really big question, but an important one.
10 years from now, if there were no chance of failure, what top two things would you have in your life? Start by making choices that would empower you toward those 2 things. It is better to go after them and fall down along the way that to pretend that they never mattered to you in the first place. By the way, if these questions sound really juicy to you, please send me PM or email. It's not in my nature to evangelize, but there is a coaching company in Morrisville that specializes in giving people tools to go after what most matters to them. I am a graduate of the program, and I can give you more details if anyone is interested.
Andy, you might start by asking yourself: What is the
experience I am after? Nevermind the things you would be
doing during your workday. Maybe you could describe how you would be interacting, either with people or with tasks. Would you prefer creating new things? Providing more value out of existing things? Working with people?