It was my first time and I saw some guys scrubbing their tires and wondered why they bothered, you still sit for a few minutes before you start.
The spinning the tires off the line thing is very easy to avoid, use a car without enough power to spin them. Works for me.
My wife came over to the work station and I was pretty sure she was not supposed to be there, but as I want to continue doing this and also want to continue my mostly strife free marriage, I did not say anything to her. She was just standing behind us taking pictures and I figured it was safer than her wandering around.
About the spectators standing close to the course. Most, if not all, of the spectators were not around for the driver meeting. So they did not know to not stand past the ditch. Most of them did seem to have the sense to stay on the inside of the faster "turns", when they were closer to the course Maybe placing cones, every fifty feet, in a line down the course to show the no pass point would help.
The guys working are(should be) busy paying attention to the course, and don't need to be running off spectators, and everybody else is either driving, prepping or waiting.