Okay, here goes...
When I was 16 years old, I bought my first car, a 1987 Porsche 944 with 187K miles displayed on the odometer (which no longer worked). I didn't know anything about cars or things like staggered tires, which is how I ended up driving around with the two larger wheels on one side after rotating my WalMart tires trying to get some more life out of them. I learned how to drive RWD and fell in love with it. I drove way too fast and recklessly on back roads purely for fun late into many nights for about 2 years, luckily I never hit a deer, ended up in a ditch, or worse. I got many speeding tickets, the worst of which was 127 in a 65 on I-85 on my way to community college. I was arrested and had to call my parents to bail me out. When the mechanic and lawyer bills had maxed out all of my credit cards and my license was nearly suspended, I bought a 1992 Honda Accord 5MT and my driving life got a lot more boring. I still got speeding tickets.
In January 2008, after having a better job for a while and a clean driving record (well, the 3 most recent years that mattered), I purchased my dream car, a Honda S2000 (944 + Accord = S2000?). All I knew was: it was faster than my 944, it was RWD, and hopefully it would be as reliable as my Accord. Plus it looked sweet, and had these "coilover" thingies installed, which sounded awesome, whatever they were. I didn't know what autocross was and couldn't care less about motorsports. When I told my friend Carlton Whitehead about the car I had bought, he immediately said "you should autocross it!" I replied, "what's autocross?" He convinced me to get up really early one Sunday morning and drive two hours to a town I'd never heard of, Laurinburg.
This was the result. Yep, I was last place in every way, DNF on every run. What a humbling experience. Even my scratch time was beaten raw by a Fit driven by Chris Lin. Art won FTD and FTP in Karl's S2000, I believe. I had a great time and was hooked from the first run, and I have only missed a couple THSCC events since that day.
Through my first season I was pretty distant with people in the club. Carlton was the only person I knew, and I didn't make any friends. It's a two-way street though, and I probably wasn't the most welcoming either. I probably told people offering to ride along and coach me that "no, I got it" when they offered. I suppose if I hadn't been interested in continuing with the sport/club, I could have left and that would have been that. But everyone was faster than I, and I wasn't discouraged, in fact the opposite. It became apparent to me at some point that these people had skill and experience that I didn't, and that made me determined to acquire that same skill. People were definitely helpful, though, whenever I needed anything, and I definitely did not feel discriminated against or unwelcome. Plus, I had finally found a place where I could drive as hard as I wanted, and there was no fear of speeding tickets or quadrupling insurance for 3 years. It wasn't until the Novice School at the start of 2009 when I started to get to know people in the club. Several people coached me and helped me get faster, and it felt fantastic. I started getting more involved and attending meetings, and here I am today.
Bottom line though, I think that if this is going to be someone's hobby, it will happen quite naturally once they've been to an event. Autocross is misunderstood almost 100% of the time by people until they attend an event. The big hurdle is getting people to come out to their first one, so they get to see and experience what it's all about. If they don't come back, I think the quality of the club and welcomingness of the people are most likely not the primary reasons. But for the record, in my experience as far as autocross clubs go, THSCC has a great group of people attending and running things, and does a good job attending to novices thanks to people like Rob, James, Maria, and others.
Remchak: I heard you were in Fayetteville on Saturday. Bummer we didn't get to meet, I would have loved to talk shit to your face.

Guess you'll just have to come to another autocross.
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