JasonWatts wrote:
but I am quickly getting up to 35-40k with some quick looking for new (plus the cost of the trailer)and am just not feeling this.
There's certainly no need to buy brand new. I bought my 1999 F250 diesel a year ago for $8100. Mine was a great find, but there are bound to be others out there like it. It has towed the S2000 to DC, south Georgia, and Lincoln, NE. As a tow vehicle, it is total kickass. As a daily, it can be a little clumsy in tight areas, but there's an easy solution to that. Don't take it to tight areas. In parking lots, I tend to park far away from other people anyway, so that's no change.
If the truck is going to be your daily driver, you'll have to come to grips with the fact that it's not a sports car. They're not fun to drive like a Miata or an S2000 is. To me, though, it's a different kind of fun. You ride up high and it makes cool truck noises. It has nice comfortable seats, a decent stereo, and KILLER A/C. You have to prioritize whatever is right for you. Sure, a Tacoma is a little more manageable around town. But is it really
that much better than a bigger truck? That's something to think about when hooking up to a trailer. For me, I would MUCH rather deal with a tow vehicle that tows well, and happens to be a little clumsy in town, than a small truck that parks easily but tows poorly. YMMV.