What Donnie & Dick said plus this...
You can drive the car deeper and harder into the corner, once trail braking is complete then you can jump on the throttle hard and the diff will help throttle-on rotate you out of the corner...and the bigger bar helps you put the power down. It's very subtle and not always easy to see from outside the car, but once you've seen it done correctly a few times it's easy to understand how it works. The hardest part for me was learning to brake with less pedal pressure, but elongate my braking zone so as to keep the car from pushing on entry...the lighter one brakes with this setup the faster you go.
Yes, you can get on the gas even earlier with a smaller bar, but unless you revalve the stock Bilsteins to make them *a lot* stiffer you will be slower with the stock bar. The Wootens ran the stock bar, but did the revalve and their car was wicked fast in really tightt stuff and it was impressive how early they could get on the gas on corner exit. But, it was very loose in transition and a handful to drive according to several folks. It sounds like that may be the setup for you *if* you are willing to get the shocks revalved. But, a bar is usually cheaper and easier to install that a shock revalving. Also, you can always run the RB bar on the softer setting if you want.
The big bar makes the car very controllable and easier to recover whether in transition or in a sweeper. It is truly amazing how hard you can push (or beat) on that car and keep in under you. In fact, my biggest problem has been *not* driving it aggessive or hard enough. When I drive that car angry and hard is when I'm the fastest. When I try to get cute and overly smooth I'm off the pace. Part of that is the great shocks, but an equal chunk is the bar.
The big bar also helps the car slalom quicker...if you stay ahead and stay in the gas the car may slither a lot, but it will generally stay under you. If you plan on driving at or near the limit all the time, then the bigger bar helps keep the car under you and helps to salvage many runs.
It's taken me two years to start to figure out how to drive the silver Miata closer to its potential, but I see the beauty of the setup. Once again, there have been a variety of succssful setups in 1999 Miatas, so there is no one right answer. After watching the class for years, I do think the big bar setup is generally going to be the fastest and most consistant...but, once again we are always talking about tenths of a second. I'd be shocked if you didn't think the car was better with the RB bar after a few events.
I hope that helped muddy the waters for you

Eric