MikeWhitney wrote:
Your situation reminds me a lot of one that happened a few years ago with another person. All of his suggestions came by email, and all the officers immediately hated him. Took a few months for him to dig himself out of that hole. Now, a few years later, we all get along great.
Not sure if Mike is talking about me or not, but I guess I would fit the description. I might even be the exact person Mike is thinking about.
A few years back, I bitched up and down about how the registration was run was not to my liking. Wasn't even a freaking member at the time.

Needless to say, I was dead wrong and the biggest mistake I had made was jumping in and assuming that I knew better without any real experience. I also had no respect for the hard work that was put in to make it all happen.
I totally understand the issue of trying to find the time to "help out" with the club. Some people no matter how busy they are with work or a home life somehow find the time. Others just can't make that same level of commitment. That is a personal decision and I don't think anyone is right or wrong on this. I think the problem is that if you can't step up (and I am not saying I have), you just have to have a very thick skin if you start to publicly (such as via the forum) provide critisims. Even if it is intended to be constructive.
I think that those 20% that do 80% of the work tend to group people into two classes. Those that help and those that pay their yearly dues and show up for events. If you fall into the second group (which I can at times) you need to be VERY careful (rightly so) about how you provide feedback. Especially if those on the receiving end are people who are sacrificing more than you to make all of this happen.
These days I try to find the best way I can help within the amount of time my life allows and otherwise I try to stay out of people's way and give them the benefit of the doubt about how they are doing things. If I have some feedback, I try to provide data points (i.e I didn't hear but one of my times on the radio), but I also try to go out of my way to explain I am happy to get something on the radio because of someone elses hard work we now HAVE a radio. Basically I am not bringing food to the table, so I am happy with whatever I am served.
Oh, now, lets all get happy!

What are we at now. Six pages of posts for the first event? We haven't even talked about cheater tires, PAX or any of the other usual suspects.

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